I swear there is definitely a full moon out. I have seen it twice. This morning I passed out the flyer that Gayle made last night as an FYI about Terry’s husband. Well some jack-hole noticed some spelling errors and criticized it. They suggested that who ever wrote it up should use spell check. Said Jack-hole was on the elevator with me a while later and asked me who wrote up the flyer and I looked at her and simply said yes Sharon I heard you the first time. She then asked if I wrote it up and I looked at her and said no. Who the fuck cares? I told a few people and all agreed it doesn’t matter. One shared a story on how “Jack-hole wrote notes in to various accounts she was working on and they were very poor in spelling. When I heard that I laughed so hard.
The little girl (she is probably 18) that I have taken a dislike to came to work in really short shorts. Gayle noticed it too. She ended up changing later on she was in a dress when last saw her. Now that I think about it I didn’t see her for a good part of the afternoon. I have a feeling they may have placed her elsewhere because the boys (the two Jordan’s) had their shifts changed.
The volume of mail was light and that was a good thing. I was able to work on other stuff and get it out of the way. As expected I got a large stack of authorizations to mail out. I knew it was a matter of time before I got it. I was so hoping I would get the small pile I have been working on done first. It never happens that way. Anyway the mail was completely done and I hope tomorrow is the same way so that I can relax for the afternoon. I have two Dr. Appointments and I want to be able to leave knowing I don’t have anything to do Saturday except scanning.
I found out today that Susan will be on vacation for the next week. I am not sure where she will be but she will be out of our hair for the week. We can work on getting our new two day goal done without her breathing down our necks. It would be nice if we could be all caught up by next week. Gayle would like it too. She really has a lot on her plate.
People started contributing to the collection for Terri. Niamba will be doing some thing from the Team while I will be collecting from the entire floor. So far we have $18. I need to get a flyer started. I also have to find a florist she likes in East Haven. Maybe we will have more people contribute tomorrow.
I stayed until 5:30 and got a chance to see Gayle’s Daughter Maria and Granddaughter Gabby. Her birthday was this week. I couldn’t believe how much Gabby has grown since I saw her. They have a lot going on and Gabby was arguing with her Mom about something. I decided right then to leave for the bus. I was so tired I knew I wouldn’t be able to stay much longer. I did catch the Milford Bus. I was home ten minutes earlier then usual. I got to see the Dalmatians and their parent Chris.
I was planning on doing some banking today (closing out the accounts and moving them to the Credit Union) but I just didn’t have time. I will have to make time next week. Maybe do one account at a time. The other reason is I have bills to pay right now and they are somewhat big. Speaking of bill paying I better get to them. I have one due the beginning of next week.
It really is another beautiful night. I think I will get into some warmer pajamas then the shorts and t-shirt. The moon is big and full again. Okay I will see you all tomorrow.
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Thursday, July 14, 2011
Sunday, March 20, 2011
The End of a Busy Weekend.
Hey everyone its the end of a busy weekend. Friday my vacation came to an end and the beginning of going back to a regular routine started on Saturday. Mom presided over a wedding here at the house and we had 20 people in our small living room. I also was having my computer reinstalled as it crashed on Friday. Today I had my bingo and then went to my sister's for a family gathering to introduce the family to the newest additions to the Rivera family.
Now I am just relaxing and keeping an eye on my computer (Mom's letting me use hers until mine is all set with updates and stuff).
I am sort of aggravated right now as somethings that bothered me today during the family gathering and during bingo have been going over in my head:
1) As a friendly gesture I was getting to know a new resident and her daughter. The daughter thought my asking her where she was from was a little "too personal". My response is to fucking grow up. (the bingo session)
2) I picked my friend Dave up to attend the family party we went to and he made fun of the way I was introducing my bil's BIL to him.
3) Through out the time I was getting nervous or anxious anytime Dave opened his mouth when ever he said "how can I say this" I would tell him nicely or carefully. I had gotten looks from my nephew to relax.
4) I was telling my mother how upset another friend of mine applied for a job and discovered someone else got the job before she felt it was properly advertised. She felt there was inappropriate handling. It annoyed me she wasn't understanding my friends view. That's probably why I haven't said anything since "T" told me about it.
6) Dave would tell people I would give him updates and not mention that particular person. He would ask who everyone was related too. I would tell him.
7) He would point out the food and ask me if I tried it. He had given Mom a piece of Flan and it really pissed me off because he has done it to me in the past. Serve food w/o asking if we wanted it or not. I looked at him and asked him to please not just do that w/o asking. When I reminded him later his response was "Well she doesn't have to eat it". If I fucking did that to anyone do you really think it would be appreciated?
8) I told Mom later about it and apologized for the fact Dave did it. She looked at me and reminded me that I said I would not be judgemental of him. She didn't mind him doing it and appreciated. She never ever understands my aggravation with Dave and always makes excuses for him.
9) After my Mom left and we were talking about the wedding and our discovery that our house is small. My sister makes a joke that when Mom and I are fighting it isn't big enough. Why the hell does she have to make comments like that? There was no need for her to do that. Of course the others laughed and agreed that is basically the case in their home.
I get so damn angry over it. Now I am feeling guilty over it and she wants me to email him and thank him for giving the flan. IF she doesn't mind it then SHE should be the one to call him.
Now I am just relaxing and keeping an eye on my computer (Mom's letting me use hers until mine is all set with updates and stuff).
I am sort of aggravated right now as somethings that bothered me today during the family gathering and during bingo have been going over in my head:
1) As a friendly gesture I was getting to know a new resident and her daughter. The daughter thought my asking her where she was from was a little "too personal". My response is to fucking grow up. (the bingo session)
2) I picked my friend Dave up to attend the family party we went to and he made fun of the way I was introducing my bil's BIL to him.
3) Through out the time I was getting nervous or anxious anytime Dave opened his mouth when ever he said "how can I say this" I would tell him nicely or carefully. I had gotten looks from my nephew to relax.
4) I was telling my mother how upset another friend of mine applied for a job and discovered someone else got the job before she felt it was properly advertised. She felt there was inappropriate handling. It annoyed me she wasn't understanding my friends view. That's probably why I haven't said anything since "T" told me about it.
6) Dave would tell people I would give him updates and not mention that particular person. He would ask who everyone was related too. I would tell him.
7) He would point out the food and ask me if I tried it. He had given Mom a piece of Flan and it really pissed me off because he has done it to me in the past. Serve food w/o asking if we wanted it or not. I looked at him and asked him to please not just do that w/o asking. When I reminded him later his response was "Well she doesn't have to eat it". If I fucking did that to anyone do you really think it would be appreciated?
8) I told Mom later about it and apologized for the fact Dave did it. She looked at me and reminded me that I said I would not be judgemental of him. She didn't mind him doing it and appreciated. She never ever understands my aggravation with Dave and always makes excuses for him.
9) After my Mom left and we were talking about the wedding and our discovery that our house is small. My sister makes a joke that when Mom and I are fighting it isn't big enough. Why the hell does she have to make comments like that? There was no need for her to do that. Of course the others laughed and agreed that is basically the case in their home.
I get so damn angry over it. Now I am feeling guilty over it and she wants me to email him and thank him for giving the flan. IF she doesn't mind it then SHE should be the one to call him.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Something is Going on at Work
Friday was a bit of a tense day. The newbie to the Team Bruce had a problem with another team mate. I am not sure who it was as neither was he. Anyway there was a problem about attitudes and it really upset Bruce all morning. He talked with Gayle about it for a bit and she suggested he take cues from me (as be aggressive) about the files. Anyway he is going to talk more with Gayle on Monday.
The revised petition is still going around the office in regards to the incident between Jerri K and Linda B I mentioned earlier this week Some people still have problems with the language and they really should. It is good to question and need to be specific as I told the newest organizer this past week. She seemed genuinely glad to hear what I have to say and she promised to let the committee know.
Today I asked Linda B’s teammate (cubicle mate if you will) how she was doing. I regaled her with the fact it took me two months to find what happened. We then discussed what had occurred with me. We agreed that we are a dysfunctional family. We love/care/hate/annoy each other but we have each others’ back.
Yesterday I could tell there was something up with Gayle. Apparently someone she trusted betrayed her. Susan spoke to her about being too close to the team. So she warned me that she would be turning into a bitch and to not take it personally. I really hope that it wasn’t me. I had told Lee Ann that Gayle was going to pay get the six staff members who came in on Wednesday breakfast. I just hope that Lee Ann didn’t say anything or Susan didn’t hear me. As Evelyn said Gayle has been through this before. I am hoping it won’t go on for long.
I did manage to get the daily work done. I can start to get the readdress mail done and the mail for other floors done on Monday since there will be limited mail delivery. I always say the mail volume should be light or non existent and something always happens to not make it happen.
I had dinner with Dave last night it was part of his Christmas gift to me. We met at Café Atlantique in Milford. There was a website for it but it is an old one and there are new owners now. Dave had a chicken Panini. I had a tomato and cheese crepe with salad and we each had a coffee or tea. We shared a piece of carrot cake. We spent the time catching up with our families, life, work and stuff like that.
The second half of the Christmas gift was tickets to the East Bound Theater play Sex, Lies, and the IRS. It was a two and half hour show that was very good. I met up with several people I knew from the DTC, the woman’s club, and school. It was very good. The play finished around 10:30 and after chatting some more with Dave we left for our perspective homes.
Mom was still watching TV when I got home. We talked about the evening and then after awhile I came up here and did some web browsing. I stayed up until Midnight. Mom went to bed before me.
Today I got up and got ready for work. Mom was up and reading her paper before I left. Mom suggested I get some new jeans at the LL Bean. She has been trying to get rid of one of those $10 gift things she got in the mail I guess.
I got to the office by 7:40. I got set up and then chatted with a number of people. Bob hadn’t arrived yet so we couldn’t sign in. The six hours were productive and long. I chatted with co workers, got online, and then finished a really big batch that had 178 pages.
I got home by 2:30. Mom was working on her taxes and I had lunch. I watched TV. I watched a little of the Olympics today and they were pretty cool.
The rest of the afternoon I was online and did some laundry. Mom went to 5:30 mass and when she came home we had eggs and bacon.
After a few stops to various websites I am now going to bed.
The revised petition is still going around the office in regards to the incident between Jerri K and Linda B I mentioned earlier this week Some people still have problems with the language and they really should. It is good to question and need to be specific as I told the newest organizer this past week. She seemed genuinely glad to hear what I have to say and she promised to let the committee know.
Today I asked Linda B’s teammate (cubicle mate if you will) how she was doing. I regaled her with the fact it took me two months to find what happened. We then discussed what had occurred with me. We agreed that we are a dysfunctional family. We love/care/hate/annoy each other but we have each others’ back.
Yesterday I could tell there was something up with Gayle. Apparently someone she trusted betrayed her. Susan spoke to her about being too close to the team. So she warned me that she would be turning into a bitch and to not take it personally. I really hope that it wasn’t me. I had told Lee Ann that Gayle was going to pay get the six staff members who came in on Wednesday breakfast. I just hope that Lee Ann didn’t say anything or Susan didn’t hear me. As Evelyn said Gayle has been through this before. I am hoping it won’t go on for long.
I did manage to get the daily work done. I can start to get the readdress mail done and the mail for other floors done on Monday since there will be limited mail delivery. I always say the mail volume should be light or non existent and something always happens to not make it happen.
I had dinner with Dave last night it was part of his Christmas gift to me. We met at Café Atlantique in Milford. There was a website for it but it is an old one and there are new owners now. Dave had a chicken Panini. I had a tomato and cheese crepe with salad and we each had a coffee or tea. We shared a piece of carrot cake. We spent the time catching up with our families, life, work and stuff like that.
The second half of the Christmas gift was tickets to the East Bound Theater play Sex, Lies, and the IRS. It was a two and half hour show that was very good. I met up with several people I knew from the DTC, the woman’s club, and school. It was very good. The play finished around 10:30 and after chatting some more with Dave we left for our perspective homes.
Mom was still watching TV when I got home. We talked about the evening and then after awhile I came up here and did some web browsing. I stayed up until Midnight. Mom went to bed before me.
Today I got up and got ready for work. Mom was up and reading her paper before I left. Mom suggested I get some new jeans at the LL Bean. She has been trying to get rid of one of those $10 gift things she got in the mail I guess.
I got to the office by 7:40. I got set up and then chatted with a number of people. Bob hadn’t arrived yet so we couldn’t sign in. The six hours were productive and long. I chatted with co workers, got online, and then finished a really big batch that had 178 pages.
I got home by 2:30. Mom was working on her taxes and I had lunch. I watched TV. I watched a little of the Olympics today and they were pretty cool.
The rest of the afternoon I was online and did some laundry. Mom went to 5:30 mass and when she came home we had eggs and bacon.
After a few stops to various websites I am now going to bed.
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Going Apple Picking Today
Good Morning! I am leaving in 15 minutes with Dave to meet Mary and her sons at the restaurant for lunch and then go to the Orchard. I suspect we will also do the Corn Maze. That should be fun. Not really but what the hay.
Hey everyone I am back. It has been a long day. Dave didn’t get here until around 11:15 and we had to wait a bit because Mary was still at church. I told Dave they should have said this originally. I mean I could have done bingo if I tried and also went to church. I was going to go at 8:30 but by the time it came time I didn’t.
We started off at 11:30 and headed to the Meeting place while we were driving Mary called and said she would not be getting there until 1. So we made a few side stops. (Now that I am writing this so late I can’t remember what order they were.) They were Dunkin Doughnuts, Vinnie’s garden shop they all didn’t take very long.
Mary and the kids were just ordering when got there (we had no trouble finding it). It was in a lovely place on Route 66. Yes Connecticut has a Route 66. We sat down and then gave our order. I had chicken nuggets, onion rings and water. I think Dave had tuna something.
While we were talking Mary had to reprimand or scold her son Eric a few times and encourage her other son Garrett to eat. She was saying that Eric was spoiled and that her MIL spoils him and then criticizes her for not disciplining him enough. Something I have felt on a number of occasions.
After we ate we took off for the Lyman Orchard Complex. We met up with our friends Julie and Keith. They brought their son and another little boy. We went to the Corn maze and went through it. It was $8 and as in the past went to the Cancer Society. This time it was in the shape of a lady bug. As in the past there were trivia questions and some extra stuff too. It got a bit hairy a few times.
Once we were done with the corn maze (maybe an hour later) we stopped in the Apple Barrel shop and did some shopping and tried the samples. I didn’t buy anything but everyone else did. Julie and Keith had to leave for home but we decided that we would do a pot luck dinner for November 1. Once we said goodbye to them we headed to the Orchard and did some fruit picking. Before we left Mary was a little annoyed with Dave for taking his time at shopping while she had the boys who were getting bored. It was not really Dave’s problem but he also does forget he is with other people.
First we headed to the Pears and got separated from Dave. I stayed with Mary and she had to scold the boys. I called Dave to see where he was but I saw him as he was coming back.
Our next stop was the Apples. I got just over 4 lbs while Mary was picking some and so where her kids. Once we finished we chatted and she admitted or criticized Julie for making comments about disciplining her kids or letting the kids stress her out. Dave was totally ignoring it but I made some suggestions (and observations) that counseling might help. I also said that some people feel they can discipline other people’s kids in their homes or set boundaries. She didn’t seem to buy it. I asked Dave later if she said those things not only to criticize about Julie but in around about way tell me not “to discipline her kids”. If they had gone on ahead or something I would say something and I asked and she said she had no problems with it. She also felt her SIL’s were too strict. I felt differently.
We said goodbye and headed back home. The ride was fine until we got to Milford. We got to Merwin Avenue and I asked Dave if he could help get he bulk trash out with me so Mom wouldn’t have to. (That was my intent but) from there it went to hell very quickly.
He hemmed and hawed and said he wanted to go walk the dog first and get some pie for Mom and me. Well I got angry because he wasn’t taking me home first and was reduced to us call each other names and him almost throwing me out of the car. He reminded me that the day after his father died I bitched about Mom but did he say anything no. I realized he was right. I apologized and I offered to go back and get the dog walked with him and we would do the bulk trash after. Things were fine after that. We emptied the car and then came back here.
I was apparently pretty hyper when I came home because Mom commented before I left. She has no idea what had preceded our arrival. We talked about the corn maze and how successful I was at the apple picking and how we found our way with little difficulty.
Once we had gotten enough stuff out for now Dave and I went back to the house and walked the Dog and then he had dinner and I had a piece of pie and then he drove me home and I apologized again.
Mom was watching and having a late dinner. She was exhausted and wanted to relax. I went upstairs and watched TV for the next few hours. I got into my pajamas and put the AC on. I was watching Philadelphia (1993) and something on the History channel about the Twin Towers on 9/11. It got to be too much.
I also checked some emails and answered some of the ‘Sad News’ replies when I posted last week about Dave’s Dad passing. One of them was from Telka. I was so embarrassed that I hadn’t seen them before this. I replied tonight. I also got an email from my friend Michele P asking about Lyman orchard. I hope she got the link with ease.
Mom went to bed a short time ago and I will be following suit. Tomorrow I go back to work. I was checking the work emails and found one from Stephanie M. She had the revised documents I had given her to use while I was on vacation. I have no idea what to expect when I get there. I am still concerned I will be spoken to about the stuff under the desk. I hope not but this will be chance to start out fresh again.
Well I better get going. I am too wired to get to sleep. I may throw out some more papers and then hit the sack. I am really worried that my alarm clock won’t go off. It was ringing when I got home.
Hey everyone I am back. It has been a long day. Dave didn’t get here until around 11:15 and we had to wait a bit because Mary was still at church. I told Dave they should have said this originally. I mean I could have done bingo if I tried and also went to church. I was going to go at 8:30 but by the time it came time I didn’t.
We started off at 11:30 and headed to the Meeting place while we were driving Mary called and said she would not be getting there until 1. So we made a few side stops. (Now that I am writing this so late I can’t remember what order they were.) They were Dunkin Doughnuts, Vinnie’s garden shop they all didn’t take very long.
Mary and the kids were just ordering when got there (we had no trouble finding it). It was in a lovely place on Route 66. Yes Connecticut has a Route 66. We sat down and then gave our order. I had chicken nuggets, onion rings and water. I think Dave had tuna something.
While we were talking Mary had to reprimand or scold her son Eric a few times and encourage her other son Garrett to eat. She was saying that Eric was spoiled and that her MIL spoils him and then criticizes her for not disciplining him enough. Something I have felt on a number of occasions.
After we ate we took off for the Lyman Orchard Complex. We met up with our friends Julie and Keith. They brought their son and another little boy. We went to the Corn maze and went through it. It was $8 and as in the past went to the Cancer Society. This time it was in the shape of a lady bug. As in the past there were trivia questions and some extra stuff too. It got a bit hairy a few times.
Once we were done with the corn maze (maybe an hour later) we stopped in the Apple Barrel shop and did some shopping and tried the samples. I didn’t buy anything but everyone else did. Julie and Keith had to leave for home but we decided that we would do a pot luck dinner for November 1. Once we said goodbye to them we headed to the Orchard and did some fruit picking. Before we left Mary was a little annoyed with Dave for taking his time at shopping while she had the boys who were getting bored. It was not really Dave’s problem but he also does forget he is with other people.
First we headed to the Pears and got separated from Dave. I stayed with Mary and she had to scold the boys. I called Dave to see where he was but I saw him as he was coming back.
Our next stop was the Apples. I got just over 4 lbs while Mary was picking some and so where her kids. Once we finished we chatted and she admitted or criticized Julie for making comments about disciplining her kids or letting the kids stress her out. Dave was totally ignoring it but I made some suggestions (and observations) that counseling might help. I also said that some people feel they can discipline other people’s kids in their homes or set boundaries. She didn’t seem to buy it. I asked Dave later if she said those things not only to criticize about Julie but in around about way tell me not “to discipline her kids”. If they had gone on ahead or something I would say something and I asked and she said she had no problems with it. She also felt her SIL’s were too strict. I felt differently.
We said goodbye and headed back home. The ride was fine until we got to Milford. We got to Merwin Avenue and I asked Dave if he could help get he bulk trash out with me so Mom wouldn’t have to. (That was my intent but) from there it went to hell very quickly.
He hemmed and hawed and said he wanted to go walk the dog first and get some pie for Mom and me. Well I got angry because he wasn’t taking me home first and was reduced to us call each other names and him almost throwing me out of the car. He reminded me that the day after his father died I bitched about Mom but did he say anything no. I realized he was right. I apologized and I offered to go back and get the dog walked with him and we would do the bulk trash after. Things were fine after that. We emptied the car and then came back here.
I was apparently pretty hyper when I came home because Mom commented before I left. She has no idea what had preceded our arrival. We talked about the corn maze and how successful I was at the apple picking and how we found our way with little difficulty.
Once we had gotten enough stuff out for now Dave and I went back to the house and walked the Dog and then he had dinner and I had a piece of pie and then he drove me home and I apologized again.
Mom was watching and having a late dinner. She was exhausted and wanted to relax. I went upstairs and watched TV for the next few hours. I got into my pajamas and put the AC on. I was watching Philadelphia (1993) and something on the History channel about the Twin Towers on 9/11. It got to be too much.
I also checked some emails and answered some of the ‘Sad News’ replies when I posted last week about Dave’s Dad passing. One of them was from Telka. I was so embarrassed that I hadn’t seen them before this. I replied tonight. I also got an email from my friend Michele P asking about Lyman orchard. I hope she got the link with ease.
Mom went to bed a short time ago and I will be following suit. Tomorrow I go back to work. I was checking the work emails and found one from Stephanie M. She had the revised documents I had given her to use while I was on vacation. I have no idea what to expect when I get there. I am still concerned I will be spoken to about the stuff under the desk. I hope not but this will be chance to start out fresh again.
Well I better get going. I am too wired to get to sleep. I may throw out some more papers and then hit the sack. I am really worried that my alarm clock won’t go off. It was ringing when I got home.
Sunday, April 27, 2008
The nerve of some people
Good morning everyone it is almost 6:30 and I am cleaning out the mailbox. I will be getting ready for my bingo session and then church in a little while.
I really didn’t follow the schedule I had planned out for myself on Friday. I did laundry spent time on the computer. I went to the store with Mom to return a new iron. Ours died yesterday. I will be getting a new telephone come this Thursday with an answering device attached so all those of you who were trying to get a hold of me and will be able to now.
I got a call yesterday from Roberta’s Friend Debbie and we made plans to room together for the wedding next month. It also looks like I will be going up with her as well. I decided that I would leave work early that day and drive to her house and we would drive up together.
I posted Friday’s entry to all the different blogs yesterday. The reason for that was some of them hadn’t been posted in for quite some time. So I will start again today.
I found out on Friday that Jim went into rehab this past week. He called Thursday and gave Mom the heads up. He basically said “taking care of business”. Mom is relieved but she was really pensive Friday night.
It has been several hours now and I am just about to update the minutes from last Thursday’s 4th district meeting…
I received a message on A Free Online Diary
From: keithshaw62@gmail.com
Timestamp: 2008-04-13 03:59:33 GMT
In reply to: What a beautiful Day
Message:
Hello. Well this is quite a unique situation you have. You areSingle and still live with your Mother? Can I ask why is thisThe case. I do know that if I was not married I would notBe living with my Mom. My younger brother is still livingWith her. This is just not meant to be. Do you not want toMove out and have your own apartment or flat. You can haveMore freedom this way. It cannot be an easy situation. You areMother and daughter but you are both at a different stage Of life. I hope you do have friends that you can socialize With. You are unique and special. Be the best person you can Be. I think I have just found someone else in my age group Who has a Diary online? Maybe you will be independent one Day. No offence meant. I hope you had a good Easter.God BlessSurvivor
I was a bit offended that some idiot who really doesn’t know me would presume to say this is just not to mean to be. Duh…maybe not in your world but in others parents and adult children do live together for various reasons. Before your start passing judgment you might want to take that into consideration.
Several hours later have passed and I found this in my bulk mail:
Hello Katiegirl
Thanks for your response.I do know that lots of young adults do still live with their parents.It is good for your Mom to have
you for a companion.But I do know that when children do become adults then they should leave home.Young adults need
to find or have their own independance.I hope this is a confidential letter.My younger brother has been livng at his parent's
house for more than twelve years.His situation is different to yours.He has turned down many jobs and does not really want
to leave home for some reason.My Mom wants to keep the peace so she does let him stay.I do hope your financial situation
does improve some day soon so you can move out.This is a contraversial subject for me.Does this not mean you have less
freedom etc regarding your social life?Everything of the best.God Bless
Survivor
On Mon, Apr 28, 2008 at 7:25 AM, Katiegirl <katiegirl0831@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
First of all through out the centuries parents and their adult children have lived together for one reason or another. For me is necessary because of finances. I also provide companionship for mom.http://www.my-diary.org/users/38145
I have shared it with my journaling lists….
I really didn’t follow the schedule I had planned out for myself on Friday. I did laundry spent time on the computer. I went to the store with Mom to return a new iron. Ours died yesterday. I will be getting a new telephone come this Thursday with an answering device attached so all those of you who were trying to get a hold of me and will be able to now.
I got a call yesterday from Roberta’s Friend Debbie and we made plans to room together for the wedding next month. It also looks like I will be going up with her as well. I decided that I would leave work early that day and drive to her house and we would drive up together.
I posted Friday’s entry to all the different blogs yesterday. The reason for that was some of them hadn’t been posted in for quite some time. So I will start again today.
I found out on Friday that Jim went into rehab this past week. He called Thursday and gave Mom the heads up. He basically said “taking care of business”. Mom is relieved but she was really pensive Friday night.
It has been several hours now and I am just about to update the minutes from last Thursday’s 4th district meeting…
I received a message on A Free Online Diary
From: keithshaw62@gmail.com
Timestamp: 2008-04-13 03:59:33 GMT
In reply to: What a beautiful Day
Message:
Hello. Well this is quite a unique situation you have. You areSingle and still live with your Mother? Can I ask why is thisThe case. I do know that if I was not married I would notBe living with my Mom. My younger brother is still livingWith her. This is just not meant to be. Do you not want toMove out and have your own apartment or flat. You can haveMore freedom this way. It cannot be an easy situation. You areMother and daughter but you are both at a different stage Of life. I hope you do have friends that you can socialize With. You are unique and special. Be the best person you can Be. I think I have just found someone else in my age group Who has a Diary online? Maybe you will be independent one Day. No offence meant. I hope you had a good Easter.God BlessSurvivor
I was a bit offended that some idiot who really doesn’t know me would presume to say this is just not to mean to be. Duh…maybe not in your world but in others parents and adult children do live together for various reasons. Before your start passing judgment you might want to take that into consideration.
Several hours later have passed and I found this in my bulk mail:
Hello Katiegirl
Thanks for your response.I do know that lots of young adults do still live with their parents.It is good for your Mom to have
you for a companion.But I do know that when children do become adults then they should leave home.Young adults need
to find or have their own independance.I hope this is a confidential letter.My younger brother has been livng at his parent's
house for more than twelve years.His situation is different to yours.He has turned down many jobs and does not really want
to leave home for some reason.My Mom wants to keep the peace so she does let him stay.I do hope your financial situation
does improve some day soon so you can move out.This is a contraversial subject for me.Does this not mean you have less
freedom etc regarding your social life?Everything of the best.God Bless
Survivor
On Mon, Apr 28, 2008 at 7:25 AM, Katiegirl <katiegirl0831@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
First of all through out the centuries parents and their adult children have lived together for one reason or another. For me is necessary because of finances. I also provide companionship for mom.http://www.my-diary.org/users/38145
I have shared it with my journaling lists….
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